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CLOSING Raffle on 31th March

 

I'm going to get real for a moment here in Deviantartland and hope my message helps people make better choices. I try very hard to wake up every single day and be a better person.  Do better than the day before.  A better friend.

I'm not always successful and lord knows I make mistakes. I have never tried to intentionally hurt anyone.  I've never set out and said "yes, I'm going to do this to hurt someone."  I've learned with age to try very hard to choose my words and thoughts but not always successful at that.  So it's hard for me to understand the mindset of people who go out of their way to hurt people.

I belong in a group of amazing people and I've read their stories where someone went out of their way to hurt them - otherwise people attacking them or their friends with fallacious arguments- it's truly mystifying that people will go out of their way to hurt someone.  They take advantage of someone's trust and use that to hurt someone. I always wondered how horrible that must feel for someone to be on the receiving end.  I also always wondered what compels  . . what type of ugliness does someone have to possess inside to make someone do this.  Both sides were something foreign to me. Until recently.
I've seen someone being on that uncomfortable receiving end of someone's ugliness.

And I don't understand it at all.  It doesn't feel good and absolutely has taken a toll on me and my relationships with people in general. Now I am careful in every conversation I have with anyone, I look at social media in a different way.

What I want people to read and get is this:  it takes a moment to hurt someone that will last a lifetime.  A second to change the dynamics between friends or family.  When you make a conscience decision to be mean your actions have an impact.  You can sit behind a computer screen and keyboard and inflict a tremendous amount of pain. You can look someone in the eye and say something that wounds them forever.  It takes very little effort to destroy another person. And you have to live with that and for the life of me I do not understand how someone can live with that legacy.  It takes a second for everything to change forever.  A second.  It's that fast and that far reaching.  

I have a friend that tells her kids every day before they get on the bus: have a good day and make good choices. She yells it at the top of her lungs.  I think that's a message everyone needs to read daily: make good choices.  Think before you speak.  Think before you say something.  Think before you type.  Think before you do something because in a blink of an eye you could be responsible for changing a life forever.  Why is this concept so difficult for human beings to understand?  Just be decent to one another.  We have free will to not engage in something, not say something, scroll on, NOT forward something, NOT set out to intentionally hurt someone else.  You have a choice in every nanosecond of your life.  

I'm no role model or angel. I make mistakes every day.  And when pushed to my brink I have a short temper and I hate that about me. But I try every day to be the good person I hope to be one day.  And that's all I'm asking you - if you've read this far.  Just be a good person.  Try.  And wake up every day and try again.  

In all seriousness, if you're reading this and I've hurt you in any way - please reach out to me and let me know so I can fix it or apologize.  

Now I'll go back to only posting funny stuff and nerdy things on my private social media land.

Take care my darlings :*.

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